I got some stuff on the list for the new year. I have not been writing for a while so I will just put down what comes to mind. I really don't care what I write this time because I think it has been so long since I posted anything that by this time nobody will have been looking to see whats new so here it goes.................
What an exciting opportunity it is to start a whole new year in more ways than one, even.....
LeeAnn and I were married January 2nd of 2009 so we have celebrated our 1 year anniversary already. We spent it the best possible way a couple can....We spent time together. Just us two at home resting and we did go out to eat. I ate my brains out almost, I ate so much. Just coming to our first anniversary has made me think about all the memories for the year that we have shared. I don't mean in any way to be all sentimental and gooshey but I am a family man. Nothing means more to me than "the family." I have great memories of when I was a kid and growing up with my parents and brothers and sisters around.
I have heard that the first year of marriage is the hardest, and my marriage to LeeAnn this past year has not be a piece of cake, But oh man, it is so worth everything. I am still getting to know her, and that is what amazes me is that I still am learning more about her every day it seems. Because when I think I know something, I learn something new about her. She is such an incredible woman. I am lucky to have her. I would say that we have had some tough times in our marriage this first year but I don't want my marriage to sound like a cliche. It is definately not that. I have learned what to do and what not to do in most situations I find myself, there are some other things in the marriage that I still am learning what not to do, that could be the stubborness I have in me that I got from my dad. haha...
What I have seen from some situations this past year with LeeAnn and myself is that usually when she is being serious I am clowning around and being sarcastic, but when I am serious she is joking around with me and we have butted heads at times for that, but looking at it now is kind of funny to think about. I did learn a valuable lesson that hopefully I will carry with me for the rest of my life with LeeAnn and that is to never disappoint her. I did that once when I failed some classes in college and did not tell her about that. She was so upset with me, and I was upset with myself for making her feel so uneasy with me for not telling her about my school situation. When she found out about it it was too late for me to explain and she felt as if I had betrayed our trust. I felt horrible for causing her to be upset with me and I learned to always do everything I can to make her happy. I still get on her every last nerve sometimes but I do it out of love. And hey, I am still learning my boundaries with her. Things she likes that I do, things she does not like...etc.
I got the good news that I passed all my classes for the fall semester of 2009 and have already registered for spring 2010 at Volstate. 2 or 3 more semesters will get me through to MTSU and closer to a degree and then a job that will help me to provide better for LeeAnn and myself. My target is a Land Developing degree and a residential contracting license. Building homes and also some remodeling.
Happy New Year....
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
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